We often focus on the leaders, the prophets, the ones making history. But what about the everyday folks caught in the crossfire? Today, we're diving into a fascinating passage from Bamidbar Rabbah 18, a Midrash (rabbinic commentary) on the Book of Numbers, that gives us a glimpse into just that.
The story starts with the rebellion of Koraḥ against Moses, a challenge to Moses’s leadership and Aaron’s priesthood. Remember the verse, "And On son of Pelet" (Numbers 16:1)? The Midrash asks, why was he named On? Because, it answers, all his days were spent in acute mourning. He regretted his association with Koraḥ.
But here's where it gets really interesting. The Midrash tells us that On ben Pelet was saved by his wife. Rav says she was a woman for whom wonders, pelaot, were performed. She saw the writing on the wall, realizing that this power struggle was a no-win situation for her husband. "What is in it for you in this dispute?" she asked him. "If Aaron is the High Priest, you are a disciple, if Koraḥ is the High Priest, you are still a disciple!"
She knew, as the verse says, "The entire congregation, all of them are holy" (Numbers 16:3). This wasn’t about holiness; it was about power and ego. So, what did she do? She got him drunk, laid him in bed, and then, in a truly remarkable act, she sat at the door with her daughter, unbound her hair (a sign of immodesty), deterring anyone who came looking for On. Meanwhile, Koraḥ and his followers were swallowed by the earth.
The Midrash then contrasts her with Koraḥ’s wife, quoting (Proverbs 14:1): "The wise among women builds her house – this is On’s wife. And the foolish will destroy it with her hands – this is Koraḥ’s wife." Can you imagine the courage and foresight it took for On's wife to stand against the tide, to protect her family even if it meant defying social norms?
But the story doesn't end there. The Midrash goes on to explore the gravity of challenging authority, especially spiritual authority. Rabbi Ḥisda says that anyone who enters into a dispute with his teacher, it is as though he enters into a dispute with the Divine Presence, as it is stated: “Who agitated against the Lord” (Numbers 26:9).
The Midrash also touches on the idea of lashon hara, evil speech. Rabbi Abbahu said: Anyone who thinks ill of his teacher, it is as though he thinks ill of the Divine Presence.
Then we get a fascinating, almost surreal, account. Rava expounds on the verse "But if the Lord creates a creation?" (Numbers 16:30). He explains that Moses wasn't asking God to literally create Gehenna (hell), because "There is nothing new under the sun" (Ecclesiastes 1:9). Instead, he was asking God to bring the opening of Gehenna near.
And what about Koraḥ's sons? "But Koraḥ’s sons did not die" (Numbers 26:11). Why? Because they repented. Rabba bar bar Ḥana recounts a tale of an Arab showing him the place where Koraḥ's followers were swallowed, two fissures emitting smoke. He lowered a wet woolen fleece into the fissure; it was singed and fell. He then heard voices crying out, "Moses and his Torah are truth, and they are liars." The Arab explained that every thirty days, Gehenna returns them to this place, like meat in a cauldron.
But there's a glimmer of hope. The Holy One, blessed be He, is destined to take them out in the future. Hannah's prayer is quoted: “The Lord puts to death and brings to life; He lowers to the abyss and elevates” (I Samuel 2:6).
So, what can we take away from this rich and complex Midrash? It's a reminder that even in the midst of grand narratives and epic conflicts, individual choices matter. It highlights the power of wisdom, the importance of humility, and the enduring possibility of repentance. And perhaps most importantly, it shows us that even those who make mistakes, even those who find themselves on the wrong side of history, can still find a path to redemption. It is a reminder that we all have a role to play, not just in the big picture, but in the everyday moments that shape our lives and the lives of those around us.
“And On son of Pelet” (Numbers 16:1) – why was his name On? It is because all his days were spent in acute mourning.35He regretted his association with Koraḥ and the rest. “Son of Pelet” – a son for whom wonders [pelaot] were performed. Rav said: On ben Pelet, his wife saved him. She said to him: ‘What is in it for you in this dispute? If Aaron is the High Priest, you are a disciple, if Koraḥ is the High Priest, you are a disciple.’ She said to him: ‘I know that the entire assembly is holy, as it is stated in their regard: “The entire congregation, all of them are holy”’ (Numbers 16:3). What did she do? She gave him wine and got him intoxicated and lay him in bed. She sat at the door, she and her daughter, and she unbound her hair. Anyone who came for her husband On would withdraw. Meanwhile, they were swallowed. This is what is written: “The wise among women builds her house” (Proverbs 14:1) – this is On’s wife. “And the foolish will destroy it with her hands” (Proverbs 14:1) – this is Koraḥ’s wife. “They arose before Moses…princes of [nesi’ei] the congregation” (Numbers 16:2) – the outstanding of the congregation.36Nesi’ei is expounded to mean those raised [nisa’im] above the congregarion. “Distinguished of the convocation [mo’ed]” – who know how to intercalate the years and to determine months.37Mo’ed is expounded in the sense of appointed times. “People of renown” – that have great renown in all areas. “Moses heard” (Numbers 16:4) – what did he hear? Rabbi Shmuel bar Naḥmani said that Rabbi Yonatan said: It teaches that they suspected him regarding a married woman, as it is stated: “They were jealous [vaykanu] of Moses in the camp” (Psalms 106:16) – Rabbi Shmuel bar Yitzḥak said that Rav said: It teaches that everyone warned [kinei] his wife concerning Moses.38This is the first step of the sota process, where a husband warns his wife not to enter into isolation with a certain man. “[Moses arose and] went to Datan and Aviram” (Numbers 16:25) – Reish Lakish said: From here is learned that one does not perpetuate a dispute. Rav said: Anyone who perpetuates a dispute is in violation due to: “And he shall not be like Koraḥ and like his congregation” (Numbers 17:5). Rav Asi said: He39Anyone who perpetuates a dispute. is fit to be afflicted with leprosy. Here it is written: “As the Lord spoke to him at the hand of Moses” (Numbers 17:5), and there it is written: “The Lord said to him further: Bring your hand…[and behold, his hand was leprous]” (Exodus 4:6). Rabbi Ḥisda said: Anyone who enters into a dispute with his teacher, it is as though he enters into a dispute with the Divine Presence, as it is stated: “Who agitated against the Lord” (Numbers 26:9).40The verse is referring to Datan and Aviram. Rabbi Yosei bar Rabbi Ḥanina said: Anyone who quarrels with his teacher, it is as though he does so with the Divine Presence, as it is stated: “These are the waters of strife, where the children of Israel quarreled with the Lord” (Numbers 20:13). Rabbi Ḥanina said: Anyone who states a grievance against his teacher, it is as though he states a grievance against the Divine Presence, as it is stated: “Your complaints are not against us, but against the Lord” (Exodus 16:8). Rabbi Abbahu said: Anyone who thinks ill of his teacher, it is as though he thinks ill of the Divine Presence, as it is stated: “The people spoke against God and against Moses: Why did you take us up from Egypt….” (Numbers 21:5). Rava expounded: What is it that is written: “The sun, the moon, stand in their abode [zevula]”? (Habakkuk 3:11).It teaches that the sun and the moon ascended to zevul.41The fourth of the seven heavens. They said before Him: ‘Master of the universe, if you perform justice for the son of Amram, we will emerge; if not, we will not emerge,’ until He shot arrows at them. He said to them: ‘For My honor, you did not protest,42When people worshiped the sun or the moon you did not protest. but for the honor of flesh and blood, you protested?’ Today, until He strikes them, they do not emerge.43The sun and moon do not rise since they are protesting because of God's honor. Rava expounded: What is it that is written: “But if the Lord creates a creation”? (Numbers 16:30). Moses said: ‘Master of the universe, if there is a creation of Gehenna, fine; but if not, let the Lord create it.’ What did he mean? You say to actually create it, but is it not written: “There is nothing new under the sun”? (Ecclesiastes 1:9). Rather, it is to bring the opening [of Gehenna] near. “But Koraḥ’s sons did not die” (Numbers 26:11). It is taught in the name of our Rabbi: A place was fortified for them in Gehenna. Rabba bar bar Ḥana said: One time I was walking along the way, and a certain Arab said to me: ‘Come and I will show you the place of those of Koraḥ who were swallowed.’ I went and I saw two fissures from which smoke was emerging. He took a woollen fleece, soaked it in water, placed it on the tip of his spear and inserted it there. It was singed and fell. He said to me: ‘Listen; what do you hear?’ And I heard that this is what they were saying: ‘Moses and his Torah are truth, and they44They are referring to themselves, having entered into a dispute with Moses. are liars.’ He said to me: ‘Every thirty days, Gehenna returns them here like meat in a cauldron, and they say this: Moses and his Torah are truth.’ But in the future, the Holy One blessed be He is destined to take them out. In their regard, Hannah said: “The Lord puts to death and brings to life; He lowers to the abyss and elevates” (I Samuel 2:6).