Another matter, “Yitro…heard,” that is what is written: “Heed the word of the Lord, house of Jacob” (Jeremiah 2:4). That is what the verse said: “My son, if you have become a guarantor for your friend” (Proverbs 6:1). Rabbi Neḥemya said: It is stated regarding Torah scholars. As long as a person is a Torah scholar, he is indifferent to the public and is not punished on their account.
When a person is appointed as a leader and dons the cloak of leadership, he can no longer say: ‘I tend only to my own benefit; I do not care about the public.’ Rather, all the travail of the public is upon him. If he sees a person performing injustice to another, or performing a transgression, and he does not admonish him, he will be punished for it. The Divine Spirit screams: “My son, if you became a guarantor for your friend,” you are responsible for them.
“If you have given your handshake for a stranger” (Proverbs 6:1); the Holy One blessed be He says to him: ‘You introduced yourself into the arena. One who introduces himself into the arena either prevails or is vanquished.’ The Holy One blessed be He says to him: ‘You and I are standing in the arena, either you prevail or I prevail.’22The leader may be successful in averting Divine punishment from afflicting the community; if not, the Divine attribute of justice will prevail (Etz Yosef).
“You have been snared by the sayings of your mouth” (Proverbs 6:2). “Sayings” means nothing other than giving instruction regarding Torah, as it is stated: “My son, observe my sayings” (Proverbs 7:1), and likewise, “incline your ears to my sayings” (Proverbs 4:20).23Thus, another danger of leadership is that one may issue incorrect rulings and be held accountable (Etz Yosef). “Do this, then, my son, and be delivered, as you have come into the hand of your friend” (Proverbs 6:3); apply yourself to know what to do, since you introduced yourself into this responsibility to become a leader.
“Go, ingratiate yourself” (Proverbs 6:3) in the dust of the feet of princes who are greater than you. That is what is written: “And exalt [urhav] your friend” (Proverbs 6:3). Rehav means nothing other than royalty, as it is stated: “I mention Rahav” (Psalms 87:4).24The midrash may understand this as a reference to the kingdom of Egypt. Some commentaries fail to see the relevance of this verse and suggest others that the midrash could have cited (see Maharzu).
If not, your blood is on your own head, like the blood of a gazelle and a deer. That is what is written: “Be delivered like a gazelle from the hand” (Proverbs 6:5) Bereshit Rabba Parashat Vayigash 93:1>. The Rabbis say: “My son, if you have become a guarantor for your friend,” this is Israel, who are guarantors between themselves and the Holy One blessed be He.25This means that each member of Israel is responsible for the conduct of the others.
Israel is beloved as they are called friends, as it is stated: “For the sake of my brothers and friends” (Psalms 122:8). What was their guarantee? When the Holy One blessed be He came to give the Torah, none of the nations accepted it other than Israel. This is analogous to a king who had a field and he sought to entrust it to sharecroppers.
He called the first and said to him: ‘Will you accept this field?’ He said to him: ‘I do not have the strength; it is too hard for me.’ Likewise, [he offered it] to a second, third, and fourth, but they did not accept it from him. He called the fifth and said to him: ‘Will you accept this field?’
He said to him: ‘Yes.’ ‘In order to work it?’ He said to him: ‘Yes.’ When he received it, he left it fallow. With whom would the king be angry, with those who said: ‘We are unable to accept it,’ or with the one who accepted it, but after he accepted it, he received it and left it fallow?
Is it not with the one who accepted it? So too, when the Holy One blessed be He revealed Himself on Mount Sinai, He did not leave any nation that He did not knock on their door, but they did not accept upon themselves to observe it. When He came to Israel, they said: “Everything that the Lord spoke we will perform and we will heed” (Exodus 24:7). By right they should have heeded.
That is, “heed the word of the Lord, house of Jacob” (Jeremiah 2:4). If not, you will be punished due to the guarantee. That is, “my son, if you have become a guarantor for your friend.” Another matter, “heed the word of the Lord,” this is analogous to a king who said to his servants: ‘Guard these two goblets for me,’ and they were made of fine glass.
He said to him: ‘Be careful with them.’ When [the servant] was entering the palace, there was a calf at the palace entrance. It butted the servant and one of them broke. The servant was standing and trembling before the king.
He said to him: ‘Why are you trembling?’ He said: ‘Because a calf butted me and broke one of the two goblets.’ The king said to him: ‘If so, make certain to be careful with the second.’ So too, the Holy One blessed be He said: ‘You crafted two goblets in Sinai, “we will perform and we will heed.”
You violated “we shall perform,” as you made a calf before Me. Be careful with “we will heed.”’ That is, “heed the word of the Lord, house of Jacob.” Another matter, “heed the word of the Lord.”
That is what is written: “Heed and your soul will live (Isaiah 55:3). See how beloved is Israel, for He entices them. He said to them: ‘If a person falls from a rooftop, his entire body is hurt. The doctor enters to him and gives him a bandage on his head, as well as on his arms, on his legs, and on all his limbs.
The result is that he is covered with bandages. I am not so. Rather, there are two hundred and forty-eight limbs in a person, and the ear is one of them. The entire body is contaminated with transgressions.
When the ear heeds, the entire body is enlivened. “Heed, and your soul will live.”’ That is why it says: “Heed the word of the Lord, house of Jacob.” Likewise, you find that Yitro merited life by means of hearing.
He heard and he converted, as it is stated: “Yitro, priest of Midian, father-in-law of Moses, heard everything that God had performed on behalf of Moses and Israel His people…” (Exodus 18:1).